It used to be an ease

September 4, 2011

Timetables

The fact that your girlfriend is pretty doesn’t give you an automatic right to do whatever you want with her. Let’s put this straight. Because every now and then people comes to that fatalistic point in conclusion: she’s pretty, so she’ll do what I want. No. False. You are mistaking.

If she’s pretty she will, more the like, act as if you could do whatever you wanted with her. Below the surface there’ll always sublie something strange, but most powerful and stronger than her beauty. It is not her cheerings, nor her simpathy, nor her bright and delightful smile. There you go, it is her willing.

Take the chance that you are lucky and she’s the most absolute crap your eyes have got the pleasure to get through in their life. You still has to take into account much more than that to tide up your rotten ideas about good and evil and start acting towards your desired directions. Non the less you will probably have this other romantic but also stupid notion that being she so ugly you are always doing her wills. It’s not what we’re discussing here, so better not to move forward in that direction.

Once cleared these basic commonly assumed notions, you’d better take a tour through yourself and find the true “other half” of hers. If you’re a woman, you are ok. Now if we are talking to men, prepare with good equipment and self aware. See, it gets complicated… It’s difficult to get to our will if we don’t know our matches’ one. So, just saying, it is not related to her beauty.

It is more related to something extra and different. Yes. It has more to do with your timetable. The point is that you are not living in Germany - or you are, then you could just stop reading and go fuck yourself, if it really matters to you… or you could keep on dehydrating your eyes, as you see. But what you really have to do something about is about leaving her wating for another thirty five minutes. If you want to arise to a sort of compelling-to-both-of-you agreement on your couple plans.

So yes. She’s pretty, you’re getting always late. Still, you think you have the right to spit to her face speeches about rights and wrongs, or the absence of them. And if you are neither in Cuba, this is not good to empathy. And I think it is not really a matter of culture. If you are not there in time, man, she’ll be gone! No way of making plans together that way.